My sons girlfriend gave my son naked pictures of her self fir his birthday. I don't know what to do!?

your son is not a baby. if i were him i would be more angry that you went through my stuff rather than that you took away the pictures. obviously they are not having sex so that's a good thing. he is going to experiment....would you rather him do it like this or with actual sex? it was inappropriate that she gave him the pictures while he was on a family trip for sure. taking the photos away could make them want to rebel and actually have sex...which would you prefer.i think you should give him the photos back because honestly they were trying to be mature about it without having actual sex and i think it would show him that you respect them both by giving them back. as an adult i am sure its a big shock and it probably made you uncomfortable...but things could be worse. the note could have said "im pregnant its your baby and here's my body before i get huge and get stretch marks." i think it will show him that you think of him as an adult and not like a little kid if you just give him the pictures back. like i said he isn't a baby.